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ACCEPTING DEATH
Old people are often more ready to accept their own approaching death than are
those who love them. Persons who have lived fully are not usually afraid to die. Death
is, after all, the natural end of life.
We often make the mistake of trying to keep a dying person alive as long as
possible, no matter what the cost. Sometimes this adds to the suffering and strain for
both the person and his family. There are many occasions when the kindest thing to do
is not to hunt for ‘better medicine’ or a ‘better doctor’ but to be close to and supporting
of the person who is dying. Let him know that you are glad for all the time, the joy and
the sorrow you have shared, and that you, too, are able to accept his death. In the last
hours, love and acceptance will do far more good than medicines.
Old or chronically ill persons would often prefer to be at home, in familiar
surroundings with those they love, than to be in a hospital. At times this may mean that
the person will die earlier. But this is not necessarily bad. We must be sensitive to the
person’s feelings and needs, and to our own. Sometimes a person who is dying suffers
more knowing that the cost of keeping him barely alive causes his family to go into debt
or children to go hungry. He may ask simply to be allowed to die and—and there are
times when this may be the wise decision.
Yet some people fear death. Even if they are suffering, the known world may be hard
to leave behind. Every culture has a system of beliefs about death and ideas about life
after death. These ideas, beliefs, and traditions may offer some comfort in facing death.
Death may come upon a person suddenly and unexpectedly or may be
long‑awaited. How to help someone we love accept and prepare for his approaching
death is not an easy matter. Often the most we can do is offer support, kindness, and
understanding.
The death of a younger person or child is never easy. Both kindness and honesty
are important. A child—or anyone—who is dying often knows it, partly by what her own
body tells her and partly by the fear or despair she sees in those who love her. Whether
young or old, if a person who is dying asks for the truth, tell her, but tell her gently, and
leave some room for hope. Weep if you must, but let her know that even as you love
her, and because you love her, you have the strength to let her leave you. This will give
her the strength and courage to accept leaving you. To let her know these things you
need not say them. You need to feel and show them.
We must all die. Perhaps the most important job of the healer is to help people
accept death when it can or should no longer be avoided, and to help ease the
suffering of those who still live.
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